Its been far, far too long since I
wrote anything here, political, religious, or anything really. So,
here is an update, and some rantings from behind my personal bully
pulpit. How am I, not doing so well right now. Looking for stable
work that doesn't involving transcribing audio. The pay stinks, and
I am very concerned about how our spoken language is degrading.
Otherwise, I am looking for a place to move to, as our landlord has
run into major financial problems, and yeah, he lost his backside.
I'm doing great, but really bummed out about Chris Cornell. I wasn't
a fan of much of his work, but he was a voice of a generation, he
give a voice to those who felt utterly hopeless, and his influence
will be felt for years to come. It is true, “No one sings like you
anymore.”
So, Carson, the former world class
brain surgeon, and current HUD guy gets up and says about how poverty
is a mindset, and I honestly don't know which is worse about this.
The comments about people being in poverty because its their choice,
or the fact that I have seen several liberals, Sanders win liberals
echo the sentiment. I have been banging my head against the table I
use as a computer desk, and this only adds to my malaise about
Cornell's suicide and what has been happening around the world.
Kids are being killed, we are bombing
them, suicide bombers are bombing them in retaliation, and FFS...
Look, kids are the only truly innocent humans in this universe,
regardless of their religious beliefs, skin color, gender or sexual
orientation. When they are killed, that is a life full of potential
snuffed out of existence, and its wrong on all levels of thought, yet
I see people justifying this endless cycle of eye for an eye. Okay,
back to the main crux of the conversation.
So, I see liberals of all strips
echoing agreement with Carson's statements about poverty. And if
kids being murdered isn't bad enough, the people who are supposed to
be standing up for people like so many of my friends and I, are
turning their backs and agreeing with the same people who think its
better to more severely “motivate” the poor into escaping
poverty.
So, lets talk about poverty, racism,
and all that ills us, because until these things are truly hashed
out, nothing will get any better. Poverty is insidious, worse than
any horror movie you could ever create. It damages people in
unimaginable ways, and just because you have escaped poverty, you are
still shackled to it. The proverbial millstone around the neck you
hear preached about. Carson, is correct in one aspect, just because
you lift someone out of poverty, it doesn't mean they won't end up
being in poverty again. But, this is where he gets lost in his own
rhetoric. You see, when someone does without for long enough, it
becomes ingrained in their very being. When you finally have the
means to acquire that something, be it a nice home, a car, a pizza
(hey, I am like Tallahassee and his Twinkies), you are going to get
those things, regardless of the costs. You are willing to risk
loosing it all to get that nice home, the car, or in my case a f—king
pizza. You have done without for so long, that you are always
thinking about how you can achieve your desire.
When you are poor, living in poverty
you are always on the lookout for how to cut corners. You go leaner,
why spend x amount of dollars for toilet paper, when you can get by
on half the cost, even if it means you'll run out sooner. After all,
you have to have food in order to survive, and what you wipe with
after using the bathroom isn't the top priority after all. You
prioritize everything you spend, is it that important that I buy
Brawn paper towels, or can I get by on the store brand. You aren't
saving money shopping like that, mostly because you are using more of
the store brand, but its cheaper and you have the money for it when
you need it. Often you spend more getting back and forth to
different stores, because hey... The Dollar General has cheaper
prices for deodorant, but Food Lion has a sale on soap, Piggly Wiggly
has a sale on meats, and you can get a pair of shoes at Walmart for
ten bucks. And lets face it, your shoes are being held together by
superglue and duct tape.
Rather than being able to do all your
shopping at one store, and go to a regular shoe store, you are
pinching pennies and getting burned all the way across town for it.
Not because you want to live that way, you have to live that way.
You have to shop where you can afford it in the now. You can't run
around for months with shoes that are falling apart, you certainly
need food, and things personal hygiene. But, the quality of products
matters, but you can't afford it. Case in point, the best pair of
work boots I ever bought were Wolverine boots. I paid dearly for
them, way more than I wanted to pay for a pair of boots that would
spend their existence knee deep in cow flops, mud and muck. My
personal preference being on a limited budget was to grab whatever
cheap boots would do the job. But I was forced into a situation
where I had to go more expensive. Of course, I was rewarded for this
by getting nearly two years life out of those boots, opposed to the
six months I generally got. When I went back, the price had
increased, and that was well outside of my price range, so back to
the thirty dollar pair of boots that lasted six to seven months.
Ultimately I would come out a little bit behind on the ordeal. One
hundred forty dollars versus nearly two hundred for two years. But
in the scope of things, sixty dollars can do many things, even today.
But apply that to everything you purchase. That new car that many
people lust after, yeah the lower tiered trims loose more value
faster than the higher tiered trims. Take Ford as an example, their
Platinum trimmed F-150s loose less value than their XL trimmed
F-150s, even when both trucks receive the same treatment and have the
same mileage. The only difference is the XL trim is the bare basic,
while the Platinum trim has everything.
But poverty inflicts damage in various
other ways, not only is it more expensive to live hand to mouth, but
it also does damage to your person. If you eat poorly its going to
reflect in your appearance. We have a ton of obese people, but look
at how many of them eat. They load up on junk foods, not because
they all love eating junk food, but because they are pinching
pennies. Sorry, but a bag of chips is a lot cheaper than making a
salad, and eating at a fast food joint is almost as cheap as eating a
bag of chips. Seriously for three or four dollars you can get
several things off the dollar menu. For five, I can get a two
sandwiches, a side, a cookie and a drink. That would feed someone
lunch and dinner. Of course, the looming heart attack is ignored
because of hunger pains. Yet many people on welfare are expected to
eat on a few dollars a day, so you're going to eat the cheapest
dredge you can find, because you have a month to live on that
stipend. But it gets better, not only are you overweight because you
are eating a craptastic diet, but you look shabby all the time.
There is nothing quite like showing up to a job interview in your
finest clothes, which consist of ragged out clothing. Of course,
when you show up looking shabby, you are less likely to get the gig,
your personal appearance dictates a lot, and how you look speaks to
how professional you are, at least in the minds of your potential
employer. So, if you looked like death warmed over, you probably
aren't going to get that job. Speaking of which, how many of you
knew that the poorer your diet, the more negative cognitive effects
you will suffer? Not eating right makes you dumber, I'm serious
about this. Your brain is the most powerful computer to ever exist,
and it takes a lot of fuel to operate it at capacity.
There is over course the stress of it
all. I cannot recall the last time I laid down and instantly fell
asleep, and remained in that state until I woke up in the morning.
When you are poor, you are under constant stress, you are unable to
properly rest, which means your mind doesn't properly reset itself.
Your mind is a constant mess, constantly thinking about how you are
going to pay for this, or do the things you need to do. You are
thinking about what you can get around paying, or what you can do
without to ensure other things are paid. You are constantly planning
for events that might not even happen. When I heard the rumors about
my landlords impending financial apocalypse, my brain went into
overdrive. I started looking at things in the house, and I started
gathering a mental list of things I didn't need. After the list was
created I went and grabbed a storage bin, and started moving all
nonessential items out of the house. What I didn't think I would
ever need, I sold at fire sale prices. What I wanted or thought I
would need went into storage. Things that nobody wanted and that I
didn't think I would need were given away or set in the trash. All
this, while my mind churns about where I am going to go with no
stable employment, no income, and credit that looks like AIG after
the market crash of 08. That weighs heavily on a person, that not
knowing what they are going to do. You start over analyzing
everything, you make plans for plans for other plans. Some people
are lucky enough to be able to roll with plan a, but when you are
living in poverty the planning process starts expanding, some of us
keep thinking out plans and possible outcomes. We analyze every
detail of every plan, what if this happens, well, I'll do that, and
the next thing you know its 3 am, and you have a job interview at 9.
So you end up with three hours of fitful sleep, and you look like you
just rolled out of the gutter. There are the devastating blows to
self esteem, yes, I am a special snowflake like every other special
snowflake. Which means, I'm not all that special. The truth of it
is, self esteem is a gauge of how you view yourself, and it can go
two ways that are very unhealthy. You can become over inflated, in
which you come to see yourself as being better than you actually are,
or deflated (like a Patriots football in a playoff game), in which
you see yourself as having little or no worth. Poor people generally
came to see themselves as having little if any worth, they are
deflated.
I might be on the cusp of turning 36,
but I really feel like I'm fifty. The years haven't been kind to
this body of mine, and I certainly didn't do it many favors, but
poverty, homelessness really added the miles on the odometer. As for
the other parts of stress, did you know that stress is a trigger for
mental illness and defect? Yeah, the more stress a person who is
predisposed to mental illness is, the more likely the stress will
trigger an outbreak. Really, if someone is disposed to having bouts
of depression, stress can trigger these bouts, making them more
severe. Stress can actually elevate pain levels, decrease cognitive
function (become unable to make good decisions), create digestive
issues, migraines, trigger depression, personality disorders,
suicidal thoughts or behaviors, create an environment for addictive
personalities, and the list goes on. Oddly enough, while you should
be concerned about heart attacks and strokes while under stress, you
are more likely to suffer from either of these conditions when you
are removed from the stress. Your body becomes so accustom to high
levels of stress that it cannot cope without it, and by that point
the damage is done anyway.
There is one other thing, and that is
pawnshops and payday lenders. The legal leg breakers. Now, I have
done a lot of business with pawnshops, and some business with the
payday lenders. Honestly, both of them are traps. Pawnshops are
actually the lesser of the evils here, and a good pawnshop will
really try and work with you, they (the good ones) don't want you to
loose your stuff to them. They want you to make your payments, get
your stuff back, because the good ones realize that if you do get
your stuff back, you'll be back when you hit another rough patch, and
when things are going good, you'll do business with them faster,
because you'll remember the times they really helped you out of a
bind. But the problem is, even when you make payments on time, you
aren't paying off the loan, you are just maintaining it,
indefinitely, and that is were they make their money. They hold your
stuff as collateral on a loan, and until you fully repay the loan,
you're going to keep paying interest only. Payday lenders work in
the same way, except they don't charge you 20%, they charge you a lot
more. So a hundred dollar loan will cost you three or four hundred
dollars. My Mom got wrapped up with one of them, and after the first
two thousand dollars her bank (Wells Fargo) stepped in and got into a
war with the company, with the rep from her bank telling them,
“You've got your blood money, and if you try and debt anymore from
her account, I'll personally see to it that you don't get a dime from
any Wells Fargo customer.” Hey, Wells Fargo actually did something
good, once, two years ago. True to it, that lending company never
tried to draft money out of my Mom's account again, and honestly, I
heard that Wells Fargo was giving that payday lender a hard time on
every payment (basically, unless the account holder verified that
they had taken a loan with said company, they didn't get their
money).
So there you have it, a short list of
just what can go wrong with you when you are living in poverty. At
times someone in poverty will self inflict wounds, not because they
are “stupid,” or otherwise a bad person. Its just trying to
survive while being poor, you are trying to cut corners while you are
trying to survive, and ensure that you aren't starving to death in
the gutter. And really, you aren't always creating self inflicted
wounds, remember, you are trying to get by while spending the least
amount of money you can. In a sense, someone living like that is
making the right choice, but the consequences of the right choice are
just as bad as making the wrong one. Sure, if you have to have a
car, which is the case in many areas, you'd think buying a cheap used
car is the way to go, that wasting the money on a new car is, well,
wasting money. But the risk is what has to be measured, are you
going to get your monies worth out of a new car or the used one.
That is a personal choice, and one that is best left to the person
who needs the car. The same with a home, and what said home
contains. For Carson, and liberals who agree with him, to be so out
of touch with the realities of living poor in the US, or anywhere for
that matter, its really disheartening.
On a side note, I heard one talking
about poverty in south Asia, and how people didn't turn to violence
and crime to make it. Sadly, the first thought in my mind was the
old tried and over used conservative philosophy about gun violence in
other countries. You can't really compare two different cultures.
In this case, I do feel that it is accurate. Look here, and listen
well, hear what I am about to say about this. Unlike gun violence,
poverty is an entirely different beast. Poverty affects every aspect
of your life. In other cultures, they view things very different
than the majority do here. There, if you are enfeebled, if you are
elderly, crippled, or cannot work for other reasons, you are not
looked down upon. In other cultures you are to be helped, if you are
elderly you are to be respected, and your words are considered wise
and should be heeded, even if it is later disregarded. In other
cultures, when you are poor, you are not viewed with disdain, they
are helped, because they figured it out. When someone is too hungry,
too sick, too hopeless to try and work their way out of it, they are
a drag on the system, they are not some evil villain. They need to
brought up, even if it means less for all, all have enough. We don't
do that here, we like to say its a moral failing to be poor or
homeless, that if you are either of those, its your fault. Let me
tell you, if you are poor, or you are homeless, its not all on you.
Its on all of us, those who are poor and won't stand up, and those
who are comfortable and won't stand up.
I am sick of this, I am sick of people
bitching about Donald Trump. I am sick of homelessness, and poverty.
I am sick of applying for job after job and being turned away. I am
sick of kids being murdered (be it terrorist attacks or bombing
raids). I am sick of health care and Social Security always being
the first against the wall. I am tired of seeing a hopeless
existence for others and myself, the fear of being homeless and
destitute. And I do see a way out, stop bitching about Trump, start
calling your representatives, call them, fax them, email them,
schedule appointments to see them in person. Repeat one clear cut
message to them all, “We are tired, we want single payer health
care, we want decent jobs, we want an end to poverty and homelessness
in the United States, and you, YOU,
you will do all those things and more. Because so help me, so help
all who stand behind me, and beside me, if you don't, you will be out
of a job come your time for re-election.” Then you stand behind
those words. If they don't do the job, you find someone who will.
We cannot continue this love affair with those we have elected. We
cannot say, “Well, my representatives are doing their job, and its
the others who aren't.” That is not the case, few of them are
doing anything buy political grandstanding, and its time for We The
People to clean our houses. And it starts now, the very moment you
finish reading this.
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